Should You Spill Your Emotions?

It’s funny when it comes to matters of the heart. What “they” didn’t tell you is that when you’re in a relationship, you can’t spill your guts out in the open until the person you are dating is on the same page.

When you hold in your emotions, when you two are together, that is the only thing on your mind when you’re together. When he asks you, “What are you thinking?”, you dare not tell when you know he doesn’t feel the same way as you.

It’s aggravating when you wait until you get to the same point in your emotions, hoping that he will eventually get there. It’s painful when you fear that he may not arrive at the same emotional destination.

So what do you do? How long do you wait? When everything else is going so well, how much time do you set aside before the uncomfortable confrontation takes place?

You don’t want to badger and sound like “other women” because you don’t feel like other women. You think one of the reasons why he likes you so much is that you’re “different”. How much different can you be, though, when you are pining over not know how he truly feels about you and you being too afraid to bring up the subject?

I say to wait until you can feel it in your gut that it is a good time to discuss the matter. When you are at a turning point where you need to know in order for you to move on in the relationship, you will be brave, eloquent and mature when you approach the subject.